FAQ

What is Sex Butter? Sex Butter is a special blend of organic plant based oils that may enhance sexual pleasure for men and women by lubricating and moisturizing the vaginal tissues as well as increasing sensitivity.

What is Boudoir Butter? Sex Butter is a special blend of organic plant based oils that may enhance sexual pleasure for men and women by lubricating and moisturizing the vaginal tissues

What's the difference between Sex Butter & Boudoir Butter and why should I choose one over the other? They are both plant based lubricating creams, however Sex Butter also has a peppermint blend in it which increases sensitivity and sensation and Boudoir Boudoir Butter does not.

If you are in excruciating pain either while sexually active or just walking around in general, then you would want to start with Boudoir Butter for a more calming lubricating effect.  If you are someone who has lost your libido or have decreased sexual desire and would like something that would wake it up, Sex Butter is the right choice for you.  If you are someone who has difficulty getting to the point of climax during your orgasm, Sex Butter may help push you over the edge.

We have clients who like one over the other for a variety of reasons,  if you choose one and aren't sure which one you would ultimately want to use in the future, just ask us to include a sample of the other one with your order.

Is Sex Butter / Boudoir Butter recommended by medical professionals.  We have both gynecologists, plastic surgeons, oncologists and internists recommended our products.

How is Sex Butter / Boudoir Butter packaged?  Sex Butter is packaged in a double walled 1/2 oz. acrylic jar and is shipped in discreet packaging.

How long has Sex Butter been on the market? Sex Butter was first founded in 2008 and reformulated in 2014.  Boudoir Butter was formulated in 2015 due to public demand for a product without a minty sensation.

Are there any guarantees that Sex Butter will work for me? Response may vary with each person.  Sexual sensitivity is affected by a number of factors such as; age, hormone factors, lifestyle, prescription medications, and environment.  If you are taking prescription medications, trying to get pregnant or are pregnant, please consult your healthcare professional prior to use.

Can I use this oil while trying to get pregnant? There are no ingredients in Sex Butter or Boudoir Butter that will neither enhance or prevent pregnancy.

How does Sex Butter/Boudoir Butter compare to other products? As far as we are concerned there is nothing like it on the market.  Its made of all vegan, plant based, hydrating and healing oils.  According to research, all of the oils are individually used healing skin ailments.  Sex Butter & Boudoir Butter are FREE of parabens, hormones, GMO, synthetic chemicals, synthetic perfumes, glycerin, sugar, petroleum, sweeteners, dyes, gluten and dairy free. It is an Organic Vegan product.

How do I use Sex Butter? You may use Sex Butter in the same manner that you use any personal lube or lubricant except you only need a small dab, the size of a dime or less is usually sufficient.  Sex Butter looks and feels like "butter".  You would take a small amount between your fingers rub them together so that the product basically melts and then apply.  Most people who are using Sex Butter for sex apply right before their intimacy begins.

How do I use Boudoir Butter?  Boudoir Butter can be used in one or two ways.  It can be used as a daily vaginal moisturizer or for sex.  If you are using it as a daily vaginal moisturizer, most find that just a tiny amount needs to be applied.  I like to tell clients to use an amount equivalent to the size of a miniature lentil bean.

What can I expect when I apply Sex Butter? Women may experience a slight warming and/or tingling sensation and silky smooth lubrication. Men may experience increased sensitivity. 

Is it safe to use a silicone vibrator or sex toy once Sex Butter has been applied? Sex Butter is an organic plant based product and is safe to use with silicone vibrators or sex toys (because it is oil, we recommend cleaning toys with a little rubbing alcohol afterwards).

How much should I apply?  A little goes a long way.  You will know what is right for you but start with a small amount about the size of a dime.  Sex Butter can be used as often as you like and may be reapplied as much as desired.

Does Sex Butter have any side effects? Since 2008, when sample testing began there have been no known side effects. If you are sensitive to essential oils we recommend you use Boudoir Butter.  Please make sure you have no allergies to the ingredients in the products.

How does Sex Butter interact with prescription drugs? To date, we have found no known drug interactions between Sex Butter and any prescription or non-prescription drug. For medically related questions or known allergies, please contact your healthcare professional.

Are there any women who shouldn't use Sex Butter? Check with your physician before using Sex Butter if you are taking medication, are allergic to any of the ingredients and/or are pregnant or are sensitive to essential oils.   

Can I use condoms with Sex Butter? Sex Butter may be used safely with all non-latex condoms.(Note, the brand Skyn Condoms can also be used)  Condom manufacturers recommend that no oil-based lubricants be used with latex condoms to prevent tearing or slippage.   We always promote safe sex.

Can Sex Butter or Boudoir Butter be harmful? Sex Butter was designed to be applied before or during foreplay for the woman.  Sex Butter can be used during intercourse, manual and/or oral stimulation and masturbation. To date we have not been notified of any harmful side effects. If you experience any unpleasant side effects, discontinue use immediately and contact your physician if reactions continue. Sex Butter and Boudoir Butter are food grade edible

Is Sex Butter safe to ingest during oral sex? All ingredients in Sex Butter are harmless if ingested during oral sex. The ingredients in Sex Butter are derived from the highest quality food grade 100% natural and organic oils. For more information go to: Research Shows  Any questions please contact us

How come Sex Butter or Boudoir Butter are not liquid?
They were designed to have the texture of butter as opposed to liquid oils that can easily spill. Not only that, just like skin cream is different from skin lotions, they are absorbed differently and it feels great.The other benefit is a little Sex Butter goes a long way and its easier to take a small amount of a butter like substance vs liquid that can spill.  It's easier also to travel with.

Is Sex Butter / Boudoir Butter only available online?
Mainly it is, Click the ORDER NOW button anywhere on our site to order.

How was Sex Butter developed?
Sex Butter was a collaborative effort between Bonnie Gayle, the founder and a molecular scientist with over 40 years experience working with natural healing remedies.

How does Sex Butter or Boudoir Butter compare to other products?Sex Butter and Boudoir Butter are made of ingredients that you have either eaten or used on your skin at some point in time.  There is nothing you cannot pronounce or you have never heard of in them.

How do I use Sex Butter?
You may use Sex Butter on your precious parts and your crown jewels for enhanced sensual pleasure.  It can be used as a moisturizer as well.

Will Sex Butter help if I am not in the mood?
Sex Butter can also increase sensual awareness and arousal. It can help soothe, moisturize, and heighten sensation for you and your partner.

What is the best way to try Sex Butter?
A little goes a long way. You will know what is right for you but start with a small amount about the size of a dime. Sex Butter can be used as often as you like and may be reapplied as much as desired. Each 1/2 oz Sex Butter jar is good for 20-40 uses. (That’s only $1-$2 per use.) Each 1/2 oz. Boudoir Butter is good for 20-40 uses for sex or 60-90 uses for use as a daily moisturizer

Does Sex Butter have any reported side benefits?
Women have experienced enhancement to their own natural lubrication, increased sensitivity and increased pleasure using Sex Butter and Boudoir Butter.   Women with hormone imbalance have noted increased sensual desire and pleasure during intimacy.

Men have reported increased sensitivity and heightened satisfaction.