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Sex Butter - Organic Vaginal Personal Lubricant

Sex Butter - Organic Vaginal Personal Lubricant

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Sex Butter, an organic lubricating solution.


Are you living with pain because of Vaginal Dryness, Vaginal Atrophy, Vaginismus, Vaginal Itching, Burning or Stinging? Is this pain resulting in sexual pain or vaginal discomfort? Have you lost interest in sex altogether because just the thought of it is too painful?

You are NOT alone – 43% of women are experiencing sexual pain (Dyspareunia) and nobody is talking about it.

Intimacy was meant for pleasure, not pain. However, more than 30% of women and up to 85% of post-menopausal women are living with vaginal dryness, pain & lack of sexual desire from: menopause, medication, antidepressants, stress, chemotherapy, diabetes medication and even birth control pills. Sex Butter was created when the founder, Bonnie Gayle at age 41 discovered she had vaginal atrophy and was thrown into menopause overnight.

"At age 41 I was diagnosed with vaginal atrophy and went from a juicy woman to a dried-up cactus overnight and refused to use the toxic lubricants that were available. I decided to create a product that I would want to use for the rest of my life. This was my product and it wasn't for sale.

I was introduced to a 35-year-old married cancer survivor who was unable to have any form of penetration with her husband because she felt like she was walking around with a UTI all the time, since her chemotherapy treatments began and this was 5 years later.

I gave her some of my product that at the time didn't even have a name. I told her to apply a little dab every day without any sexual activity just to soothe the pain. The following day she called me crying with happiness that this was the first day in 5 years she could walk and urinate pain free. I told her to keep applying the product every day for a week, with no sex.

A week later I received a call from both her and her husband thanking me for saving their marriage. That was my inspiration for bringing Sex Butter to women everywhere." ~Bonnie Gayle

It's time to stop the pain & dryness you’ve been living with.

20-40 uses for sexual activity 60-90 uses for daily vaginal moisturizer

Body friendly

Food grade edible – organic, vegan & gluten-free ingredients

Recommended by gynecologists, pelvic pain specialists & oncologists

Libido enhancing

Increases sensitivity


Promotes vaginal health

Our products are always Toxin free and Free of parabens, chemicals, petrochemicals, sweeteners, glycerin, silicone, synthetic perfumes or propylene glycol, sorbitol & sulphites

NO fillers, NO junk

Can be used for all forms of sexual play

Safe to use with toys & during pregnancy

Can be used with Non-latex condoms

Clean feeling - not sticky or messy

No animal testing

Organic Ingredients with purpose:

Shea butter - Anti-inflammatory, Soothes burns & dry skin

Cocoa butter - Hydrates dry skin, Soothes burning sensation

Coconut oil - Heals dry skin, Anti-fungal, Anti-microbial

Jojoba oil - Heals dry skin, Soothes irritated skin

Grape seed oil - Protects skin & tissue, Anti-oxidants, Protects against free radicals, Promotes elasticity & flexibility

Mint propriety blend of essential oils - Regenerates nerve damage

** all products are shipped in discreet packaging

Not sure which you'd like Sex Butter or Boudoir Butter? Would you like a Free Sample of each to try? Just pay shipping and we'll get it out to you immediately. Click here to get your sample.

PS - So many of our clients and even one of the gynecologists we worked with asked us if we'd seen Grace and Frankie with Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin as they were discussing needing a natural lubrication. We thought you'd enjoy this quick video.



5 Stars
Love it!!
I have been suffering from dryness for few years. I tried few things but they didn't work. My doctor wanted me to try a cream but he said that once I start using it I can't stop. I did not want a hormone cream. I don't take medication so I needed to find a natural product. I also lost my sex drive. My husband and I were talking about it. He did some research and find sex butter. Of course I was skeptical but my husband read me the story about the friend who was ill and how she used it for a week before sex and it worked for her. So I used it for 10 days. And I worked. No dryness, no pain with intercourse. This butter is incredible. I highly recommend it . I so appreciate you making this butter. I really thought that I will never have sex again that is how much pain it use to cause.
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Reviewed by:  from . on 3/18/2017
5 Stars
I adore Sex Butter
I adore Sex Butter and Boudoir Butter, as well as Bonnie's passion for supporting women in menopause, and have been on that similar journey finding and locating all of the things that will help me and the women I serve to enjoy their sexuality and find their new rhythm with sexuality during this queenly stage of life. So crucial for us all. These products are the very best I have found. Beyond. For me, if I use it and love it, then I recommend it. This product has helped me immensely through the changes I experienced during menopause, and continues to be my go-to product. It's been my best friend throughout the roller coaster of menopause and now especially helpful as a woman navigating the stage of life women rarely discuss, post menopause. Many times, I've said a little prayer of gratitude for this product as I twist off the cap. I'm also an herbalist and aromatherapist and can say as an expert in the field of women's sensuality and relationship, that this is the very first thing I recommend to women who work with me that are struggling with peri-menopause, menopause, and post menopause and the physical changes that take place at these times. Athough Sex Butter was formulated with this stage of life in mind, I also recommend it to women of all ages, because it's the safest, most sensual, best tasting and beautifying sensual lubricant on the market. It not only enhances pleasure in every way, but it beautifies a woman's genitals over time due to the superb quality and exceptional formulation of organic ingredients used on a regular basis. Skincare for down there is what I love to tell my clients. ~Goddess Oceana, Women's Sensual Empowerment Mentor, Relationship Coach, Goddess Oracle, and Author.
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Reviewed by:  from . on 3/17/2017
5 Stars
Sex butter original
My doctor gave me a sample of this and highly recommended it. She is always up on the latest and greatest products for menapause. I have been using it over two years, I like the sensation of the original and bonus, my husband likes it also. Have recommended it others, and I like the pure natural ingredients. I give it five stars!,
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Reviewed by:  from NY. on 10/21/2016
5 Stars
Thanks for the libido help
Thank you Sex Butter for being part of my libido restoration. I am 71 and coming off a 5 year drought in which I was a full time caregiver for my late husband. Sex Butter is my ticket on the O Express. Heath and spirit benefits abound, Honor thy yoni.
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Reviewed by:  from USA. on 7/11/2018
5 Stars
Naturally Sexy!
I LOVE this product and recommend it to all my friends and clients. As a woman who lives life as naturally as possible, Sex Butter allows me to do so in the bedroom. It enhances the experience and keeps my lady parts feeling oh so good -- all while staying healthy. I have a jar next to my bed at all times. Thank you for making it!
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Reviewed by:  from CA. on 1/21/2017

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